Men's Ministry

GUARDIANS is a fraternity of men committed to living a holy life before the Lord.  We are well aware of the struggles that men face in their flesh and we are determined by God’s grace to be victorious over every temptation.  We know that God has called us as men to be PROTECTORS and PROVIDERS.  

We are GUARDIANS.  The guardians of our homes, the guardians of our churches, the guardians of our institutions, the guardians of our country and the guardians of truth and morality in human society.  All too often, however, we fail miserably.  Marriages crumble.  Churches forsake biblical truth.  Governments compromise.  Moral values in society decay and disappear.  One reason for these failures is that men are defeated before they start.  If they cannot win the battles in their own heart over sin, how can they effectively fight the battles without?  Such is the reasoning and such is the defeatism.  We must become GUARDIANS, first and foremost, over our hearts.  As it says in Proverbs 4:23, Above all else guard your hearts for it affects everything you do.   Another verse in Proverbs tells us that he that ruleth his own spirit is mightier than he who takes a city (Proverbs 16:32).  We must learn how to guard our own hearts.  We must learn how to rule our own spirits.

GUARDIANS is a ministry in the local church that empowers men to be victorious in their personal lives over sin and Satan by equipping them with spiritual weapons and encouraging them in a brotherhood of “compassionate accountability.”  It is a program that requires the following of a specific discipline, the study of scripture, involvement in a local body of Christ, and a weekly meeting with an accountability partner.

GUARDIANS will meet the second Saturday of every month in Fletcher Hall, East Campus, and will follow this basic schedule:

    8:00  A. M.         Breakfast

    8:30 – 8:45        Praise and Worship

    8:45 – 9:15        Testimony or Teaching

    9:15 – 9:30        Accountability

    9:30 – 10:00      Observance of the Lord’s Supper

It is felt that the best time to meet for GUARDIANS is Saturday morning but early enough in the morning to get back home for weekend activities.

The symbolic motif for GUARDIANS is medieval knighthood. The ideals of the chivalric code of Christian knighthood--purity, courage, honor, courtesy, largesse--are at the heart of GUARDIANS, as well as the custom of binding oneself with commitments to a faith, a fraternity and a discipline.

There are three annual events that will represent banner events for GUARDIANS.  These are three formal banquets that will held in Fletcher Hall, East Campus, with all the décor of medieval chivalry.  The first banquet will be our annual St. Valentines Day banquet held the Friday night before February 14th.  This will be for wives and sweethearts.

The second banquet will be our annual May Day banquet held the Friday night nearest May 1st.  This will be a Father-Daughter (Grandfather-Granddaughter) Banquet.

The third banquet will be an annual Warriors banquet held the Friday night nearest Veteran’s Day, November 11. This will be a Father-Son (Grandfather-Grandson) Banquet.  It will also be the occasion at which we present the “Golden Knight” award, an annual award given to the man who best embodies the core values of the GUARDIANS.

Other commitments of the GUARDIANS include a constant willingness to assist the elderly or single moms in maintenance or repair tasks around the house or with the automobile and an intentional willingness to mentor children of our congregation in single parent homes.

GUARDIANS

The Discipline of this Order

In my life there shall be . . .

     - A daily discipline of prayer and devotion
     - A daily discipline of physical exercise
     - A daily discipline of cleanliness, healthy diet, and healthy
       patterns of sleep and rest
     - A daily commitment to God, my family and my country
     - A weekly participation in my church
     - A monthly partaking of the Lord’s Supper

In my life there shall be . . .

     - No profanity
     - No pornography
     - No infidelity
     - No abusing of drugs or alcohol
     - No abusing of others (either physically or emotionally)
     - No cheating or stealing or lying

In my life there shall be . . .

     - A respectful Courtesy to all
     - A genuine Compassion toward the helpless
     - A fearless Courage before the Enemy
     - A sincere Humility before God  


. . . all of this with God as my help.


Scriptural Foundation for Guarding the Heart              

Proverbs 4:23 
Above all else guard your heart for it affects everything you do.        

Deuteronomy 6:5-6    
And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your might; and these words which I command you this day shall be in your heart.  

I Samuel 7:3        
And Samuel spoke to the House of Israel and said to them, "If you would return to the Lord your God with all your heart, then put away the strange gods and the Ashtaroth from among you and prepare your hearts unto the Lord, and serve Him only, then He will deliver you out of the hands of the Philistines."

I Samuel 13:14        
The Lord hath sought a man after his own heart.

I Samuel 16:7b        
The Lord seeth not as a man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh upon the heart.

I Kings 8:61        
Let your heart therefore be perfect with the Lord our God, to walk in his statutes, and to keep his commandments, as at this day.

Job 31:6-7            
Let me be weighed in an even balance, that God may know my integrity: if my step has turned out of the way, or if my heart has walked after my eyes.

Psalm 24:3-4        
Who shall ascend the hill of the Lord?  Or who shall stand in his holy place?  He that hath clean hands, and a pure heart.

Psalm 31:24       
Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the Lord.

Psalm 37:30-31        
The mouth of the righteous speaketh wisdom, and his  tongue talketh of judgment. The law of God is in his heart; none of his steps shall slide.

Psalm 51:10        
Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right within me.

Psalm 57:7            
My heart is fixed, O God, my heart is fixed, I will sing and give praise.

Psalm 119:10-11        
With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wonder from your commandments. Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against you.

Proverbs 23:7        
As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.

Ezekiel 18:31        
Cast away from you all your transgressions, whereby you have transgressed; and make you a new heart and a new spirit: for why will ye die, O house of Israel?”

Matthew 5:8        
Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God.

Matthew 6:21        
For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

Matthew 11:29        
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and you will find rest for your souls.

Matthew 15:18-20    
But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man. For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies: These are the things which defile a man . . .

Luke 2:19            
But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.

Luke 24:32            
And they said to one another, did not our hearts burn within in us, while he talked with us by the way, and while he opened to us the scriptures.

II Timothy 2:22        
Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

Hebrews 10:22        
Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water.

THE GUARDIAN CREED


I AM A GUARDIAN.

I guard, first, my heart, my relationship with the Eternal God.
I will keep my heart from evil.
I will love God with all my heart and follow wholly after Him.


I AM A GUARDIAN.

I guard, second, my family.
My family is God’s most precious gift to me, a treasure which
I must protect, a trust for which I must provide.


I AM A GUARDIAN.

I guard, third, my church, my spiritual family and
Christ’s Eternal Bride.  
The Bride of Christ is worthy of my best love and highest loyalty.


I AM A GUARDIAN.

I guard, fourth and finally, my country, the land of my birth.
Though it is not to be equated with the Kingdom of God, it is the world’s best hope for democracy.


I AM A GUARDIAN.

But I cannot guard without God’s help and strength.

Hear, then, my prayer, oh God:

Plant my feet to stand unafraid in the face of the enemy.
Nerve my arm to strike the deadly blow.
Fortify my heart to remain steadfast, never to waver, never to surrender.


I AM A GUARDIAN.

For that is who God has called me to be.

RESOURCES


I.      General

The Sacred Romance, Brent Curtis and John Eldredge

Wild at Heart, John Eldredge

Seven Seasons of the Man in the Mirror, Patrick Morley

The Purpose Driven Life, Rick Warren

Tender Warrior, Stu Weber

Man of Valor, Richard Exley

Raising a Modern-Day Knight, Robert Lewis


II.     Knighthood in Literature

The Chronicles of Narnia, C. S. Lewis

The Scottish Chiefs, Jane Porter

King Arthur and his Knights of the Round Table, Howard Pyle

Men of Iron, Howard Pyle

Ivanhoe, Sir Walter Scott

Idylls of the King, Alfred, Lord Tennyson

The Lord of the Rings, J. R. R. Tolkien


III.    Sexual Temptation

Every Man’s Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time, Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker and Mike Yorkey

The Porn Generation, Ken Shapiro

Think Before You Look, Daniel Henderson


IV.  Marriage

Love and Respect, Emerson Eggerichs

The Five Love Languages, Gary Chapman